The Happiest Lives

Join my cost-effective coaching program, Clarity+Courage, where we learn, apply, and grow. This month's concept: How To Have A Happy Life.

This is my place created for YOU. I hope you make it your space too. ❤️

Do you want to improve your relationship and life but are unsure where to start?

Are you seeking a way to create change that won't consume your precious time?

Are you unsure how to get unstuck or make things better?

If you are like me, incorporating your faith is a big deal. (If you wonder what I believe, I am a preferred counselor with The Focus On The Family Network and agree with their statement of faith.)

The Happiest Lives offers practical tools and techniques to improve your relationships, confidence, and mental and emotional health.

I show you how to apply what I teach so that you aren't just consuming information but making real change.

Click the "hamburger" in the top left corner to see what is available! And if you have any questions, I am happy to help. Email me at jill@thehappiestlives.com.

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A new episode is released every Friday.

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The Connection Cure

This is the second workshop in my Three Pillar Program for wives.

Ever feel like your wants, desires, and expectations have to match up with your husbands to feel connected? But what if you don't always prefer the same things?

What breaks down connection is our expectations and the view that connection is something someone else gives us.

You may not always want the same things in your marriage, and that's okay. However, it's still important to turn toward your partner finding wants that you can share. The alternative is the thought, "I will deal with this on my own," which begins the cascade of distance, loneliness, and isolation.

The Connection Cure looks at expectations, desires, and turning toward vs. turning away. It is the strategy I teach my clients to examine their Relationship Manuals and where I set things straight about Boundaries. As well I explore the concepts of finding A Want Match.

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6 Modules

What Your Heart Desires

We all want better relationships and lives. But many people can spend a lifetime in want and never experience what they hoped for. They can also spend a lifetime wanting and never enjoy what they already have. Let's take a look at your desires in light of God's truth.

3 lessons

1 Your Desires And Wanting 2 You Have What You Need 3 Do You Want What You Have?

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Manuals

A manual is your big book of rules of how others should behave. We believe the world should operate according to our preferences or ideals. The problem with manuals? They don't serve us, our husband, or our relationship.

1 lesson

1 Manuals

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Boundaries

Boundaries are about controlling what you will do or will not do when your husband gets to be who he is and do what he wants. It is never about controlling another person. Most of our issues are manual issues, but occasionally there may be an issue where a boundary is being violated.

1 lesson

1 Boundaries

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Emotional Adulthood

Emotional Adults are able to handle situations without unnecessarily escalating them. They look for solutions to problems instead of blaming others. They take 100% responsibility for their thoughts, feelings, and actions.

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1 Emotional Adulthood

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Creating Connection

Connection starts from the inside out. Believing the relationship is something happening outside of us, only makes us feel disconnected. Deciding to be the wife who takes ownership and turns toward, honoring him and yourself, sets you on the path of meaningful and authentic connections.

3 lessons